Is Your Partner A Devil Or An Angel?

Everyone has an evil twin or partner. Some times it is as though we hear the voices of two little people perched on our shoulder: the devil and the angel. The angel supports you with positive thoughts emphasising what you can do, and whispering calm, confident thoughts about possibility and potential. “You can do this, […]

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The Danger Of Mixed Messages!

The Danger of Mixed Messages! Have you ever said anything to somebody that was misinterpreted or misunderstood? For example has something like this ever happened to you? Joanna found her husband’s habit of interrupting her and finishing off her sentences increasingly annoying. Today she resolved she was going to talk to him about it. Joanna […]

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The Second Most Important Thing You Do This Week

The second most important thing you do this week is to buy someone you know a special gift and help them change their life this Christmas. Help them: Restore their self esteem     Be valued for who they are     Command the respect they deserve     Say ‘no’ when they have a right to do […]

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Should Little Girls Be Taught To Be Assertive?

Has the time come to teach little girls to be assertive? If so what stops us? Isn’t there enough evidence to support the argument that not only  should we take them to ballet lessons but self defence classes too? It’s not about ‘either/or’ it’s about ‘and’. We can allow them to follow the feminine norms […]

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